Family photoshoots are a great way to capture precious memories, but when you add a toddler into the mix, it can quickly turn from heartwarming to chaotic! For me as the one behind the camera, it's fun to see how everyone has grown and changed in a year. But for the families in front of the camera, it can sometimes be met with feelings of stress and anxiety. ESPECIALLY when there's a toddler involved. But it doesn't have to be that way! Here are some tried-and-true tips to help you not just survive, but thrive during your next family photoshoot with a little one in tow.
Keep reading to achieve real genuine smiles- STRESS FREE!
1. Schedule Around Nap Time
Timing is everything when it comes to toddlers. If possible, plan your photoshoot after nap time when your little one is well-rested and in a better mood. A cranky toddler is a recipe for disaster, but a well-rested toddler? That’s gold.
2. Bring Snacks (But Not Messy Ones!)
A hungry toddler is an unhappy toddler. Bring snacks that won’t ruin their outfits—think small, non-messy treats like crackers or bite-sized fruits. Make sure they’re easy to hand out quickly between shots for minimal disruption.
3. Keep Expectations Realistic
Let's be honest, toddlers have short attention spans. Don’t expect to get the “perfect” shot. Instead, focus on capturing the essence of your family. Some of the best photos are the candid ones where your toddler is being their adorable, goofy self. Embrace the chaos!
4. Pack a Favorite Toy or Comfort Item
Sometimes, a beloved stuffed animal or toy can be a lifesaver. Not only can it help calm your toddler down, but it can also act as a cute prop in the photos. If your toddler is feeling shy or overwhelmed, holding onto something familiar can make a big difference.
5. Dress Comfortably (for Everyone)!
You want your toddler to look cute, but also make sure they’re comfortable. Scratchy tags, stiff outfits, or shoes that don’t fit well can lead to meltdowns. Opt for soft, breathable fabrics that they can move around in easily. If you’re uncomfortable, they’ll pick up on your stress, so keep your own outfit in mind as well.
6. Plan for Breaks
Be prepared for short attention spans. Allow for breaks where your toddler can run around and let off some steam. This can also create opportunities for capturing those natural, playful moments, which often turn out to be the best shots.
7. Incorporate Play into the Photoshoot
Turn the session into a game! Whether it’s “Simon Says” or swinging them around, playing helps keep toddlers engaged and having fun. Plus, this approach often leads to the most genuine, joyful smiles.
8. Consider a Mini Session
A mini session is typically shorter and focuses on capturing a few special moments. The shorter duration helps keep toddlers engaged and reduces the chances of them becoming fussy or tired. It also allows for a more relaxed atmosphere, making it easier to capture their natural expressions and playful behavior. Moreover, a mini session is often more budget-friendly for parents while still providing high-quality photographs.
9. Stay Positive and Relaxed
Your toddler will feed off your energy. If you’re stressed, they’ll likely feel it too. Keep your tone light and fun. Laugh, joke, and stay patient. Sometimes the unexpected moments—like your toddler deciding to dance or explore—end up being the most cherished memories.
10. Know When to Call It
If it’s not happening, don’t force it. Some days toddlers just aren’t in the mood, and that’s okay. A quick session with a few good shots is better than trying to stretch things out and creating a stressful experience for everyone.
Bonus Tip: Work with a Photographer Who Understands Toddlers
Find a photographer who is experienced with toddlers and knows how to work around their whims. Someone patient, flexible, and ready to go with the flow can be a game-changer. I have received many compliments about how patient and easy going I am around their toddlers. Maybe it's because I'm also a mom of young children so I just "get it?
Toddlers and children of all ages are my absolute favorite to photograph! I enjoy getting down to their level and capturing their pure innocence and fascination with the world around them.
Final Thoughts:
Family photoshoots with toddlers don’t have to be stressful. With a bit of preparation, flexibility, and a sense of humor, you’ll walk away with beautiful, authentic moments that capture this fleeting stage of life. Plus, the unplanned moments often end up being the ones you treasure most!
Good luck and remember to enjoy the process—you’ll thank yourself later when you look back on those sweet memories!
